This article is a response to the following question:
What can I do to forget about my final score?
I just recently had a round where I shot 1 over on the front nine and
proceeded to hack up the back pretty badly. All I could think about was my final
score and the possibilities of how low it could be. I tried to stay in the
present and concentrate on the shot at hand but was unsuccessful.
What can I do to forget about my final score?
We all recognize primary or life sustaining, human, needs; needs satisfied by
food, air, water and the like. Less obvious are our secondary needs,
e.g., our need for excitement. If anyone doubts such a need, consider our
thirst to engage in activities that excite; activities such as sky
diving, bungie jumping, hand gliding, thrilling amusement park rides and the
like. Moreover, we have a need to engage in thoughts that excite us.
So, when we’re thirsty, we think about drinking something, say water. Try to
think of anything else and we spontaneously go back to thinking about drinking
water. Now, with water available, would taking only a sip be sufficiently
satisfying? No! We would have to drink enough water to satisfy our thirst for
it. Drink sufficiently and we are able to turn our thoughts elsewhere.
Now, getting back to you and your sucessful start. Given that your thinking
about the possibility of how low your final score could be was exciting,
your natural tendency was to continue engaging in such thinking until your need
for excitement was satisfied.
My hypothesis is that you tried, too soon, to focus on your shots. In
attempting to stay focused on your shots too soon, you denied your need for
excitement to be sufficiently satisfied. Thus, the more you tried to stay
focused on your shots, the more the pull to focus on the outcome.
My prescription. In the future when you do great on the front 9, take a few
minutes, if necessary, and indulge yourself by imagining playing great on the
back and/or how low your score will be. Let your excitement build to a
satisfactory level (figuratively, take more than a sip); then you will be ready
to be more fully focused on the shots at hand.... Let me know how well this
prescription works for you.
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